A Real Midsummer's Night Dream

Yesterday was a magical day! We woke up late, and after breakfast Ken walked Charlie for a bit over an hour whilst I started making Nicholas midsummer "crown". Usually it is only the girls that wear them, but after asking at the open day care they all said that it was perfectly fine for a little boy to wear as well. I made sure to choose some flowers that were "boyish", in green, blue and white. If we had lived somewhere with a garden I would of course have picked them myself, but since we don't I had to buy them at the store, and they didn't have much to choose from so I had to make do with some flowers that weren't ideal for "braiding" the crown with. Ideally they must have long, soft stems so that they don't break. I only found one bunch like that, the rest were too stiff. So I also had to use some copper wire to hold it all together. I liked the gold so much, that I wrapped way more around than I needed :)

Here is the finished result lying on the diaper bag ready to go to Karin and Lee's house



When we got there Nicholas put his crown on



I even picked his shirt so he would match the flowers! I think he looked so cute!



We arrived at Karin and Lee's house around 1.30 and they had set up a nice big table outdoors on the patio, so nice to be able to sit outside and enjoy the day.We ate delicious strawberries with a choice of cream or Ice-cream.

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Let me tell you, those Swedish Strawberries are really sweet and good!



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And the kids played in the backyard

and even though it looked like it was about to rain, the weather just got better and better, and in the end all the rain boots, rain jackets and the rain-cover for the stroller weren't needed. Nothing better than packing loads of stuff you don't need, it at least beat the hell out of not packing all those things and then needing them!

Around two o'clock we walked down through the forest, past meadows with grazing horses,



on a long, narrow road



To get to the place where the traditional midsommar pole (maypole) would be erected. In  a small clearing surrounded by woods, right by the water.



The kids each took a prime spot on one of the guys shoulders and watched in awe as the pole went up

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[caption id="attachment_500" align="aligncenter" width="332" caption="Xana took daddy Lee's shoulders"][/caption]

[caption id="attachment_498" align="aligncenter" width="332" caption="Nicholas is trying to show them how it's done"][/caption]

 

Then we had  a really nice picnic with rose wine, coffee, cake and biscuits whilst we waited for the dancing to start.

There is something so beautiful and magical about enjoying an outdoors picnic with friends and loved ones. The kids were running wild, and the grownups enjoyed lots and lots of friendly chatting and bantering, the air smelled sweetly of cake, wine, flowers and that particular green smell of trees. It was lovely!

Soon we heard the sound of music starting, and we could see a long chain of men, women and children holding hands and winding themselves down towards the maypole and slowly,slowly building a whirlwind of people snaking around and around the huge pole. There was nothing to do but join in!



This is Kenny's picture of the people lining up to get close to the pole.

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By the end of the dancing which I ended before it was over due to my aching arms, Nicholas does way 12 kg.I was tired and warm and so full of happiness over enjoying such silly dancing to funny songs around the maypole. Nicholas was ready for a nap. All that dancing and clapping got him tired!





We stayed at our picnic spot for another hour or so, and then made our way back to the Baxter residence to start getting the food ready, and the barbeques lit.



The men enjoyed playing some football



whilst Karin and I finished up things in the kitchen





Nicholas enjoyed playing with Jessie's stroller





Danielle got things set out for the kids so they could eat first



and we finally found out how many men you need to barbeque some meats







And when the kids finally sat down to eat they went quiet... the kind of quiet that means that they are enjoying the food too much to talk ,and that all the running around outdoors the whole day has given them a voracious appetite. They were so cute there they were sitting at their little "big-kids" table



And when the rest of us sat down it went quiet for a bit too, as all of us took the first bite of our delicious food, and then the talk and laughter broke loose as everyone commented on how good the food was, how good the wine was, and how good the company was. Toasts were made to the hosting couple, and wine was drunk. It was beautiful...

After spending an hour or so at the table we spread out across the lawn, and in to the neighbours lawn as well as the game KUBB was played with great gusto from both young and old, the guys went back to their football playing, and I just sat there and enjoyed it all so much.

There is nothing better than spending a beautiful day outside with friends, good food and delicious wine. I put Nicholas to bed in the guest bedroom, and sat with Danielle just enjoying the fact that he was sleeping soundly, and that the other kids were busy playing. We could sit and chat without interruptions, and when Karin announced around 10pm that the cake and coffee was ready, the darkness and the chill that comes with a setting sun, had crept up on us. The extra pair of sweats and shoes I had brought



and the white fleece blankets Karin supplied came in handy as we sat down to enjoy the marvelous strawberry cake





and would you believe that the kids were still sticky and warm from all the running around!



the cake was delicious, and the coffee too. The feeling of hot coffee as it hits your palate after a sweet piece of cake is just heaven!





We ended up staying until around 11pm, and the only reason we left then was that the boys had training in the morning, and needed to be fresh and rested..It was a great day, in great company, and hopefully a new midsummer tradition.

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As for today it has been one of those lazy days so far. The rain was pouring down earlier, and both Nicholas and I was tired from yesterday so we decided to spend the morning inside. He is sleeping now, and Kenny too- so after I'm done with this post I have some laundry waiting to be folded and a vacuum-cleaner to drag around the house before we go to the play land this afternoon.

Hope all of you had a great midsommer/St.Hans celebration too!

Riddersviks Gård

It has been such a grey day here in Stockholm, drizzling rain, clouds that feel like they are going to come down and swallow the entire city, and the bummed out mood that sometimes goes hand in hand with rainy days in the summer.

Kenny had the day off,but actually has had quite a busy day anyway. He woke up with Nicholas so I could sleep in. I had the worst night in forever yesterday. Nicholas has a fever that came on during last night, and was up several times during the night. He didn't cry or anything, but he did talk, a lot, and woke me up each time. In the end I figured out that he had to be thirsty so I had to wake up to give him something to drink.

After finally getting up around 10.30 we ate breakfast together, and Nicholas and myself went to the open day-care so he could play a bit with the other kids. He was in a great mood, and didn't feel very warm at all. The reason he has this fever now is that he went for his shots about a week ago, and the Dr. told me that this particular shot shows a fever reaction about a week later. And it did come right on the 7 day mark. I guess it's good though, it shows that the vaccine worked. He has been in good form and eaten his food all day, so you can tell that it hasn't bothered him much at all. In the time we were there Ken got the laundry done (something we usually do later in the evening, but since we weren't going to stay home he did it earlier) then he walked Charlie.

In the evening we went to celebrate Lee Baxter's 35th birthday at RiddersvikGård.

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A beautiful old mansion from around 1700. Great food and great company in beautiful surroundings. I love all these wonderful old mansions that are dotted along the Swedish coast..Almost makes me wish for another wedding so I could have it at one of them! hmmm, maybe out 50th anniversary can be celebrated at an old Swedish mansion, or why not a castle..

After eating a yummy barbeque meal we went to Karin and Lee's house with some of the other guest, for coffee and cake, and we ended up staying until around 11. Nicholas was up the whole time and enjoyed playing with all the other kids sooo much. His favourite girl, Jessie Pavey was there with Kenny, Danielle and Charlie, so he was well taken care of...

It is so nice when a day that starts all grey ends in such a nice way, and you can go to bed  feeling that maybe a bit of rain once in a while isn't so bad after all.

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Now we can start looking forwards to Midsummer which will take place at the Baxter house as well!! Maybe I will even remember to bring the camera then, so I can actually post some pictures!!

Bedtime for me!

goodnight <3

1,5 years today

Today it has been 1,5 years since I married the man of my dreams in Canada.That year and a half has been the best in my life so far. My wedding day is the second happiest day of my life, just out-ranked by giving birth to my wonderful cherub Nicholas!

We  got married in Toronto, Canada on 12.12.2009. I was 5 months pregnant at the time, so no champagne for me. I did actually have plenty of non-alcoholic drinks though! I was lucky enough to have quite a few of my family come all the way from Norway to the wedding, and as my best friend, mom, dad, siblings and Grandparents were there everyone else was just a bonus! I am so happy they could come, it made the day more special. We had a christmas-themed wedding, as christmas is my absolute favourite time of the year. Our colours were gold, Ivory and red.I have so many pictures from the day, but since I don't want to post any with unsuspecting people in them I have picked out the ones below to give you a glimpse of our big day!

Getting Ready :



Leaving for Church:



The Wedding:



The Wedding Pictures:



The Hall:

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The Cake :

I chose an untraditional wedding cake consisting of a vanilla- and chocolate-muffins tower with a soccer-ball shaped cake on top.





So what do you think? Did it look nice?

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Today is Match day here in Solna. AIK vs. Malmö, and Kenny is in net so I am probably gonna be all nerves during the game. I also get a visitor today, Maria Joy is coming to stay with us for a few days, so she will join me and Nicholas for the game! Send lots of luck this way!!!!!!

Go Gnaget!

xoxox

Maria